Shannon Ashley please stick with it. I am about to post the follow up post on things I screwed up on and the first point is to not give Medium that last word if something is good or not. Some of my first posts are just starting to get reads now and this is because I kept posting at least once a week and people are going through some of the older stuff. You may be sitting on a great post and nobody knows it yet. I just followed you and picked a random article and it is damn good. You are open and talking about subjects that need to be talked about. Fucking stick with it. You are good and you are open. That is the recipe here you just have to repeat more. Nothing worth anything should come easy.